That's a problem with him, though. Not you.

[Granted, he doesn't know any of the details. But Haruka must be holding onto so much guilt that didn't belong. It seems best to state it plainly.]

It sounds like he gave promises he didn't keep. The job of a father isn't to tear his children down the second they aren't what he hoped they would be and send them away.

...It's not stupid to want someone to be proud, Haruka. It isn't.